The school, at the beginning of the school term, is unknown for the child.
His fear is unfounded, since the incorporation of the child at the Centre is not a separation for children. Parents should keep in mind at all times that the educator is responsible for their child. Personal stability allows you to contact with the child, and to have an emotional relationship with him that enrich you and provide you with the security you need.
We should take into acount that the child does not disting into temporal abandonment and difinitive abandonment so he is going to cry, he is not going to eat or sleep etc.
The child feels that he has lost his family but also feels that he wins a lot of friends, toys, games, with a educator that tells them storys etc and at this moment he is going to asimilate that he is going to have a good time in the school. He starts the socialization process.
In conclusion, the adaptation to the child to the school is difficult but we have to have patiente and give him a lot of affection.
The tantrums of the child always have some reason. Perhaps he or se noticed by chance that their behavior gave results, but we should learn is that you it's improper conduct, that does not lead to anything and that does not help him in his frustration or rid you of an obligation or changed our way of thinking c on about something.
The main objective of the tantrums is to make a scene, not only when we give them what they seek, but also when we chastise him, we look to you, we are talking about trying to reason with them, etc. The fastest way to get rid of this behavior is therefore ignore the boy or girl, since there is no way of reasoning in the midst of an emotional start. If ignored you while you are in a safe place, it will teach you that tantrums are not effective and will learn to use them less frequently.
You can wait a few minutes to decrease their crying and tell him:
"When you're done crying, returns and we go to play".
When the child finishes the tantrum should receive it as if it had nothing happened, giving you a chance to ingratiate himself with others, not to mention the incident.
SPRING HAS COME!!!
We are going to do a dance to celebrate with this season
https://youtu.be/DobrRgD5aOU
