The main objective of the tantrums is to make a scene, not only when we give them what they seek, but also when we chastise him, we look to you, we are talking about trying to reason with them, etc. The fastest way to get rid of this behavior is therefore ignore the boy or girl, since there is no way of reasoning in the midst of an emotional start. If ignored you while you are in a safe place, it will teach you that tantrums are not effective and will learn to use them less frequently.
You can wait a few minutes to decrease their crying and tell him:
"When you're done crying, returns and we go to play".
When the child finishes the tantrum should receive it as if it had nothing happened, giving you a chance to ingratiate himself with others, not to mention the incident.
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